Burgmanlady, let us know how it goes. I can empathize with the man issue, for sure!
And I, too, have often said they can try the patience of a saint.
If you were to get a crew of big strapping guys to help, I think there's no way he'd sit and do nothing and look like a wimp in front of them.
I'm still trying to figure this one out. I understand some of it, but not all of it. If I understood all of it, then I'd be able to do something that would spark a change in my (all wives', for that matter) favor and I'd be rich. Why is it that husbands perform in front of others to impress them with their "superior intelligence"
, but won't be the same hero in front of their wives, like they were at the beginning of the relationship?! And B'lady, your story is a prime example. Maybe we can find the answer together?!!